Love Your Friends

I was talking to one of my mates the other day about love. Love is one of the most complex and interesting topic everyone experiences on a daily basis. Whether its the love of your Starbucks Latte, or you love what you have done to your hair or even if its just the special feelings you have for someone in your life... there is usually only a small time span between each time we feel love for something.

Me and my friend discussed true love. Loving your Starbucks Latte isn't love... its a clone of a feeling you can only describe as love, but deep down you tell yourself that it is love and end up believing it. But the fact is love isn't exactly as great as society makes out. When a feeling of happiness falls upon you, love is a strong connotation of this emotion. So thus love is linked with happiness. Wrong. If love was that simple, then life would be simple. The simple feeling you have for a pair of Vivienne Westwood heels isn't true love. Its a copy.

I ramble on like I know what I'm talking about. But what I say is just my opinion. It isn't solid fact. I'm not trying to patronise anyone by making out I know the "in's" and "out's" of what love really is, because lets face it, I don't. Know one really does.

Recently I have fallen for someone. A friend. Do I tell them? I don't know? Do I really like them? That to I really don't know. Being single you always think the grass is greener on the other side and vise verser. So could these feelings just be respect I have for my friend and my mind is turning them into something more, something to try and fill an empty subconsious hole in my life. What are these feelings I speak of anyway. Is it love? Do I love my friend? Or do I just "love" my friend? Who knows.

The best solution to love is through time. Over time love can fizzle out, grow, or even fizzle out and then grow back. Time heels all wounds. Time allows things to blossom.