Friends with a ex

Is it possible to actuall create a solid friendship with a ex... or is it a waste of time?

You dumped the guy for a reason so why bother trying to make the small talk with someone you didn't exactly want to spend time with... thats why he's now called a ex.

"I'm not ready for a relationship", ppl use that excuse willy nilly. However in some cases its actually true. A solid friendship with someone is nine times out of ten but better then any partnership... don't you agree! So maybe being friends with a ex shouldn't be as hard or complicating as you time!

These type of situations can only work tho if both beings involved both agree. But how do you know your both thinking the same? You can't very well just ask... breaking up with anyone creates all sorts of emotions, hatred, jealousy, angry.

No breakup is usually pretty. So maybe the end should just be the end.

Better still the beginning maybe should have never happened. Maybe friendship is just the say forward. No relationships... just friendships... and sooner or later if that friendship blossoms so be it... but if not... you still have a good friend you can love.

So maybe thats a lesson I've learnt from.

Don't look for love... look for a mate